perceptions

its amazing how each person has his/her own perception on things. one person may be thinking a certain way when the other is the opposite, and this is about the same situation.

a group of people may have the same perception on some people and yet the people involved perceive things differently. a perfect example would be a friendship between a guy and a girl. its funny how observers would conclude from certain actions that there's something going on between these two people when in fact these two people can just really be friends who are comfortable being together. i've always come across this line , "feeling ko magiging kayo talaga someday. may chemistry kasi kayo." or "may something sa kanila. ibang klase sila kumilos eh. ang sweet." how can you tell anyway? when in fact it really is just an innocent friendship that these 2 people have.

but what hurts in this kind of situation is when one of the two people involved perceives their friendship as something more, when in fact it really is purely platonic on the other's side. its really hard to make guesses on what the other is thinking. and no matter what kind of advice or opinion you ask from friends and family, they can never be of help really, coz everyone has different perceptions on things. it doesn't matter if friends niyo na or kabarkada niyo na mismo ang nagsasabi na magiging kayo dahil may napapansin silang iba, kasi in the end, nasa inyo parin ang katotohanan. kayo lang makakapagsabi kung ano talaga ang meron sa inyo.

i'm writing this at 1am because i just got home from a mini-reunion with my college blockmates and my best friend and i were talking about this on the drive home. oh diba, serious topic daw! hahaha!